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Three steps to marry Russian woman
First: write a good introductory letter
In order to write an impressive introductory letter to a Russian bride the man
needs to know a few things that would put him in good stand with the
lady. It is widely known that you never get a second chance of the first
impression.
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Be honest and provide accurate information about yourself: your
name, age, profession, family status.
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Write about your hobbies and your personality, but try to avoid
enumerating commonplace things like traveling, music and animals. If
they actually are your hobbies give more details, try to think of
something special and original to excite the woman's imagination.
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Try to make your letter as more personal as possible. Tell her about
your mood, about how was your day. Tell her some touching story from
your life.
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Do not be shy to demonstrate your interest in the lady. Feel free to
ask questions.
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Compliments… You should never forget about them. Actually that is #1
point in our tip list. Compliment her picture. Be sincere from the very
start. Let her know what impressed you about her at first sight.
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Make your letter bright and impressive. Do not forget about jokes.
It is important that you sound friendly, optimistic and positive from
the very start.
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Keep your letter short. There is no need to write a novel for 2 or 3
pages. Your letter should occupy a bit more than a half of a standard
page. Do not forget to attach your photo.
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Reply promptly. If you do not have time to reply, send a lady your
short note just to notify her that you are busy and will get back on her
later.
The main tip is be yourself and show her the best parts of your
personality.
Second: Make a phone call
Are you getting nervous before the first telephone conversation with
your virtual love? Read our advices. Perhaps, they will help you to get
over your nervousness and to feel yourselves as old friends.
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Try to concentrate and make it impossible something to distract your
attention (TV, relatives and even the kids). If you will look aside the
woman will think that you are not interested in her.
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Smile. Though the woman does not see your smile, on the other side
of wire she will definitely feel it. The smile will help not only you to
feel freer, but it will have the same effect on your interlocutor.
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Talk on the common topics or the topics you have already discussed.
For instance, about the movie you watched recently. Remember what you
wrote in the letters. Your telephone conversation should be the natural
continuing of the correspondence.
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It is better to prepare the topics before the conversation, that you
would like to discuss, but you should not predict all your phrases and
the woman's answers. Just think of the topics that you would like to
talk about during the conversation. Maybe, in the beginning of
conversation all the thoughts will fly away from your head and the
promptings that you wrote will help you a lot.
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Be honest. It is very easy to get lost in your own words, when you
are trying to fill hard minutes of silence not thinking about what you
talk. Try not to let that happen.
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When the minute of farewell will come, you should arrange the next
call. You should not arrange the meeting at once. It would be nice if
there will be several telephone conversations between you for you both
to get to know each other better and to loose the final awkwardness.
Third: Personal meeting
As you know, everybody has his or her own idea of what is good and bad
at the first meeting. But, to tell the truth, Slavic standards of good
behavior do not differ much from those accepted in the Western
countries.
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At the first meeting you should have a tidy looks and be polite.
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Do not forget to greet her. There is no need to shake her hand. Just
smile, look into her eyes and say "Hi".
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Do not talk too loud. Listen to her carefully without interrupting.
Display your interest in her. Complement her. Just act as a gentleman.
Before smoking ask her if she does not mind your smoking.
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Even if she says something that you find hard to understand, be
tolerant and try to understand her. Do not press on her or don't display
your aggression.
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It is unacceptable from the Russian women's point of view to keep
silence at the meeting or be indifferent to the lady. Of course, it is
essential that you be honest with her.
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Because lots of Slavic men are inclined to alcoholism, drinking
alcohol too much is what may make your woman angry with you.
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When it comes to the marital life, Russian women value devotion and
reliability most. That is why you should demonstrate your partner that
she is special to you.
About the author:
Mark Murray is the owner of Dating Russian women - free dating service directory for single
men seeking Russian women for dating and marriage. Find out more about
dating tips & articles, list of dating agencies, antiscam resources, visa
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